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  • 24th November 2020

Grammar Tips: What Are Reflexive Pronouns?

Reflexive pronouns let us form sentences where the subject and object are the same thing. But they can be difficult to use correctly, even for native English speakers. Here, then, we’ve prepared a quick guide to how reflexive pronouns work in English so you can avoid errors in your writing.

Reflexive Pronouns in English

There are eight main reflexive pronouns in English. Each is associated with a personal pronoun, and they all end in ‘-self’ or ‘-selves’:

Personal Pronoun(s)

Reflexive Pronoun


I, Me


I sat there by myself.

We, Us


We left a note for ourselves.

You (singular)


Were you speaking to yourself?

You (plural)


You’ll have to go by yourselves.

She, Her


She does it for herself.

He, Him


He bit himself on the lip.

They, Them


They keep to themselves.



It must be kept by itself.

These words have two main uses in English:

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  1. To form sentences where the subject and object are the same thing.
  2. To emphasise who has performed an action in a sentence.

We’ll look at both uses in more detail below.

Reflexive Pronouns as Objects

When the subject (i.e. the person or thing enacting a verb) and the object (i.e. the person or thing being acted upon) of a sentence are the same thing, we use a reflexive pronoun in the place of the object.

This can be a direct object (i.e. the thing being acted on directly):

Jerry looked at himself in the mirror.

Here, for instance, ‘Jerry’ is both the subject (i.e. the person looking) and the object (i.e. the thing he sees) in the sentence, so we use ‘himself’.

Alternatively, reflexive pronouns can stand in for an indirect object (i.e. the recipient of the direct object in a sentence):

Susan made the sandwich for herself.

In this case, ‘Susan’ is both the subject (i.e. the person making the sandwich) and the indirect object (i.e. its recipient), so we use ‘herself’.

In all cases, though, when the subject and object of a sentence are the same person or thing, you will want to use a reflexive pronoun to make this clear.

Reflexivity for Emphasis

We can also use reflexive pronouns for emphasis. This is often to emphasise agency in a sentence (i.e. who is acting or who is responsible for an action):

I made the cake myself.

Here, ‘I made the cake’ would make sense by itself. But including ‘myself’ adds emphasis, as if we were saying ‘without any help from anyone else’.

We can also use it more generally for emphasis, especially to imply importance or to show a contrast between two things. In this case, you would usually give the pronoun immediately after a noun or noun phrase:

David Bowie himself told me the secret to success!

It’s not a great town, but the beach itself is wonderful.

This is a little informal, but it is perfectly acceptable in most forms of writing.

A Common Reflexive Pronoun Error

One common error made when using these terms is using a reflexive pronoun in place of a personal pronoun in a compound subject or object. For instance, some people use ‘myself’ instead of ‘I’ or ‘me’ in a sentence:

Simon and myself have written a book.

Please submit the report to myself and Mr Harris.

However, since these are not reflexive or emphatic, they are incorrect.

There’s an easy way to spot this kind of error, though. All you need to do is remove the other part of the compound subject or object and see if it sounds right as a singular subject or object instead:

Myself have written a book.

Please submit the report to myself.

We can quickly see that these sentences should say ‘I have…’ and ‘…to me’ instead, respectively. And we can then correct the compound forms, too:

Simon and I have written a book. ✔︎

Please submit the report to me and Mr Harris. ✔︎

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